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SP Heartware Fund

With giving comes healing     

Madam Nellie Teo, aged 73, found herself in the depths of loss and hopelessness three years ago, in 2019. That was when her husband passed away, after the couple had lived for more than 40 years across the causeway in Johor Bahru. With no children or immediate family there, the Singaporean decided to return to Singapore, to start a new life alone. Within a short time, suicidal tendencies and irrational fear overtook her as she was without any support system of family or friends

After doing a search online, she was led to Wicare Support Group, a voluntary peer-to-peer network aimed at bringing hope to widows and fatherless children. 

Regaining her identity

After joining Wicare, Nellie underwent a six-month therapy programme, where she connected with other widows in a safe space where they could talk about their fears, emotions and dealing with grief. While the programme helped her to cope with her grief, she still did not know how to pass her time meaningfully.

It was not until the friendship of her mentor, Joyce, that Nellie began to take control of her life again. A widow herself, Joyce maintained daily calls with Nellie, and brought her out for tours and walks.  She also arranged for Nellie to volunteer and befriend other seniors at senior activity centres. Gradually, Nellie’s emotional well-being improved and she started rebuilding her social life.
 

Managing grief

Nellie’s healing reached a tipping point when she was inspired to build a wider social circle and become a befriender herself. She stepped forward to undergo training as a befriender with Wicare. Nellie attended courses on suicide intervention, one-to-one mentoring, case management and psychosocial coaching to equip herself to help other widows.

The intervention and support Nellie received spurred her to pay it forward, by supporting widows in leading a purposeful and mission-filled life. She said, “I shared a deep love with my husband. But now, I channel my love for him to other widows, who may need that motivation to deal with their grief. It is when I give that my heart becomes full.”

Nellie now organises weekly tea sessions, group support meetings, and even sessions of Rummy-O. While the occasional topic about their spouses may surface during interactions among the widows, it helps that they can relate to each other’s experiences, and in turn, provide a form of support – be it a pat on the back or a shoulder to cry on.

Nellie also wanted to extend her support to widows outside of her group who tend to isolate themselves when facing grief. She persevered in contacting the widows and managed to convince them to seek help as time went by. Giving and sharing with others has helped in Nellie’s own journey of healing.

Rising to inspire others

Nellie has been a beacon of inspiration to other widows. This has been made possible through the support of Wicare, which is dedicated to helping individuals like Nellie deal with grief and find closure through a myriad of programme.

These programmes help seniors live safely on their own, manage their daily activities confidently and remain connected with others in their social circle.

“Wicare allowed me to regain control and start life afresh. Widows like me find the strength to move forward despite our loss and grief.”

 

Since 2005, SP Group has been supporting Community Chest through the SP Heartware Fund, reaching out to seniors in need of critical programmes and activities provided by social service agencies like Wicare Support Group. 

Grief can be an isolating experience and an immense struggle. Health issues, loss of independence and loneliness can be exacerbated, and recovery especially challenging for seniors. 

Wicare is a peer-to-peer support group that brings hope to widows and fatherless children. Services are designed to provide emotional and social support to help them cope with bereavement and rebuild their lives.

SP Group underwrites all fund-raising costs of the SP Heartware Fund so that every dollar you contribute will go fully to Community Chest to support programmes of these social service agencies.

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